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Poly-curious / First journey with polyamorous relationships

Never had a poly relationship before but I really want to try.
I'm mostly interested in a triad or quad and polyfidelity, as in the three or four of us are only with each other and only reach out to other couples/people if permission is given by each other.

And I'm *not* just looking for a gay couple. I'm looking at women, men, and all kinds of couples.

If you want to know more about me, see my OkCupid profile. My username is Coyotalia there, too. ^^ (I also respond quicker to OKC messages).

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Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageAmerican
BuildSlim
Height178 cm
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorAuburn / red
Hair LengthShoulder length
Best featureLegs
Body ArtPierced... but only ear(s)
Health ConditionNo special Health Conditions
My AttractivenessAttractive

Situation

Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsYes
Housing SituationFriends come over often
Living ArrangementsWith roomate(s)
Wants to RelocateNo
Have PetsOther
Has a carNo

Education & Employment

EducationHigh school Diploma - GED or equivalent
Employment StatusStudent

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesCartoons, Dramas, Situation comedies, Movies, Re-runs, Science fiction
Favorite TV showsDoctor Who, Supernatural, That 70's Show, The Big Bang Theory, Roseanne, Saturday Night Live, etc.
Favorite movies typesAction, Science fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Animation, Adult
Favorite moviesPerks of Being a Wallflower, and see my OKC profile.
Music typesRock, Electronic, Pop, Jazz, Latin, Dance, Gospel
Favorite artistsSee my OKC profile.
Reading selectionAuto-biography, Fantasy, Fiction, History, Humor, Science fiction
Favorite booksRatha Series by Clare Bell and see my OKC profile.
Idea of funSee my OKC profile.
HobbiesReading, Learning, Music, Movies, Internet, Games, Dancing, Family, Playing cards

Personality

SmokerDon't smoke
DrinkingLight / social drinker
Social behaviorFriendly
Friends describe asFriendly
In High School I was a(n)Quiet one
My great timeHanging out with friends, Partying, Staying at home, Trying new things, The movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Clubbing / bars, Reading a book, Playing dress-up, Playing video games, Going to a concert
Always wanted to tryWakeboarding/Water skiing/Kneeboarding, etc.

Views

Political viewsLiberal
ReligionUnitarian Universalist
Attend religious servicesNever
Goal in lifeTo live an accomplished life where I'm proud of what I've done.

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Oddities, Spontaneity, Thoughtfulness
Look for in a partnerI mostly look for originality and a genuine personality. Humor and smiling is very important to me (I have a large sense of humor, sarcastic, friendly, and sometimes raunchy lol).

Basically I want someone that gives me good vibes so I can relax and be myself--someone who can be their self with me too.
On the first dateTry to be funny to mask the awkwardness (in reality making it /more/ awkward); usually go out for lunch/dinner/coffee/etc and talk to whoever I'm on a date with (what we talk about depends on the person); try to find something fun to do (piano, rolling down a hill, play cards, etc.) so I can get comfortable with that person.