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Cpl looking for friends with benefits

1st we're from Albuquerque but for some reason my zip code is coming up Alameda.
Me and my husband are looking for a 3rd to make a Triad or another like minded couple. Either straight males or a bi females. Must be over the age of 25 years. We are: good looking, responsible, mature, don't smoke or do drugs, extremely fun, open minded, financially stable, respectful and hard working. We are looking for the same.
I want a person that has time for me/us. If you're going to be busy on the weekends because you'll be dating this person or that person then don't waste my time and get my hopes up. Only contact me if you're willing to date me and want to be around us as much as possible. Like really good friends or a girl/boyfriend type. I, however, do not expect you to give up your friends or the time you spend with them.
Something else I need to say since it recently came up is that I don't want to be someone's secret. If we hit it off I do expect us to integrate our friends. If you're going to be embarrassed about our relationship around your friends then you do not understand how this works and you should not be messaging me at all.

Please be in shape. And that doesn't mean big body builder arms but a stomach that looks 9 months pregnant.

Don't contact me if you don't even live here.

*A relationship is only as strong as the friendship that backs it up.*
FYI-hubby does have password. I do not withhold anything from him. I am not on here to cheat. This is a combo package friendship deal.
1st-If you don't plan on speaking to me like you would to your boss's wife, then don't do it at all. I am a loving and dedicated wife, a hard working Mother and a Woman. The intimates of my marriage are none of your business until we have known each other in person. Respect is all I ask for.
Polyamorous looking for new accepting like minded FRIENDS. Trying to widen our friend base. Wife looking for straight men or bi women friends with potential benefits. Husband looking for fun respectful people.
Polyamory-Compersion- Polyamorous-Polyfidelity.
Hus band is NOT bi or bi curious. ( IDK people keep asking so I had to put it in)
We are also respectful to our children and keep our adult lifestyle separate from our family life.

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Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
BuildFit
Height165 cm
Eye ColorHazel
Hair ColorDark blonde
Hair LengthVery long
Best featureButt
Body ArtPierced... but only ear(s)
Health ConditionNo problems

Situation

Have PetsDog, Fish

Education & Employment

Employment StatusSelf-employed
Job TitleWe are distributors of a major US food company.

Leisure & Fun

Favorite TV showsLie to Me, Bones, Heroes, Big Bang, Lost, Simon & Simon, A Team, BSG (new), Star Trek The Next Generation, Cougartown, Modern Family, Fringe, X Files, So You Think You Can Dance, Firefly, Man Vs Food, Man Vs Wild, Dirty Jobs, Cake Boss, Storage Wars
Favorite movies typesAction, Science fiction, Comedy, Drama, Family, Animation, Horror, Thriller
Favorite moviesWe have thousands of movies and Netflix and we have a projector and pull down huge screen to watch them on. We love movies and we love having our friends over for movie nights.
Music typesCountry, Rap, Rock, Metal, Electronic, Pop, Classical, Industrial, New age, Dance, Reggae, Folk, Punk
Favorite artistsHe is a drummer for a local 70s cover band. He'll play anything and we'll listen to about anything. Very wide variety. The band is very active in the community especially doing benefit shows to raise money for different organizations and charities.
Reading selectionFantasy, Horror, Science fiction
Favorite booksStephen King, Anne Rice (& her other), Koontz, Saul, Jean Auel.
Idea of funEating out a different places, going to movies, bar hopping, dancing, hosting parties;we have our garage set up like a bar with pool table and darts, surround sound, musical instruments, alcohol (we social drink). Going horse back riding, Of course doing family things too. As a family we play World of Warcraft Online. For the horde! We're gamers.
HobbiesArts & Crafts, Sports, Reading, Music, Movies, Internet, Games, Clubbing, bar Hopping, Dancing, Family, Dining, Cooking, Playing cards, Computers

Personality

SmokerDon't smoke
DrinkingLight / social drinker
Social behaviorOutgoing
Friends describe asFriendly
Sense of humorFriendly
My great timeHanging out with friends, Partying, Trying new things, The movies, Clubbing / bars, Reading a book, Going to a casino, Playing video games, Going to a concert, Going to a museum
Always wanted to tryA cruise ship vacation, driving through every state in the US(done a few), singing opera, driving a NASCAR or monster truck. He'd like to play drums for a huge venue or open for one of his rock idols.

Views

Political viewsI don't like politics
ReligionBuddhist

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Oddities, Spontaneity, Money, Power, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfulness, Passiveness
Look for in a partnerUnderstanding or willingness to learn about our certain situation. Respect that we are married and we do have children. Knowing the difference between adult time and family time but wanting to be part of both equally. Someone that can give attention to both of us without excluding the other whether intimate with both of us or not (female).
We're looking for either a single male as a bf to her and good friend for him OR a single female BI for both of us OR a fun confident respectful in love no issues couple to play with.
On the first dateWe usually go to dinner to talk and answer questions and then we like to go see a live band or a comedy show.